Mrs Lea schneider
I have been married for 19 years. Mostly, sexless. My husband and I have sex 1x a year. We have (2) children. He has used every excuse in the world as to why he is not interested in sex. I am very attractive, men stare at me all the time and I am very fit. So, it's never been about my appearance or personality. I really feel that he is gay. He visits a college friend all the time in the city who is a lawyer and is gay. He states that they just have dinner thats all. He has tried to be intimate with me in not the right places. (If you know what I mean) He also does not know a women's anatomy. Never has. I recently found (2) emails and they were titled: RE: Don f**kstick important and RE: Thumping F**kstick Tory. Are these gay references? I could not open the emails as I do not have the password. If, he is gay I just wish he would be honest and let me go. It has hurt me for the past 19 years not having him ever want me. Also, he refuses to kiss me on the lips for over 10 years. It has been hard on me to remain faithful to him because I have needs. Sometimes I don't know how I have done it all these years. Is there anyone out there who has experienced a situation like mine or anyone that could help me understand? I am really looking for advice from someone who is gay or someone who was married that found out their husband was gay. I have asked him straight out and he just laughs at me. Or, if I push too hard he once said, "Ok I am as gay as a gay blade." Whatever that means. He will never admit it. I just need some guidance as I can't go to my family with this or close friends. It's too private. PLEASE HELP ME! Thanks

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Miss Natalie Mullings
I am having problems in my relationship with expressing my feelings and communicating. I do not know where to start. I do not know what I want for myself and life.

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Miss Julia Ferguson
How do I try and mend this break up before I finish packing all my belongings?

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Mrs Help Me
My husband is very controlling and I don't know how to deal with it. For instance the other day we were taking a family picture and my husband got mad at me because I styled my hair in a way that he didn't like it. In the midst of the argument I told him that I would have changed it but I didn't have the time. He said I should have bought my hair stuff in the car and changed it to the way he wanted it. He was also upset because I wore makeup. We have been having this makeup argument for the past six months. When he met me I wore make up and colored my hair now he wants me to stop all together. I feel I don't have to because he should accept me for how I am. I wear it because I like it. It helps me feel feminine like all the little things women do for themselves. He feels I need to stop all of it. He gets mad if I tweeze my eyebrows if I color my hair or do any maintenance to myself. He feels like I am being a bad example for our six month old daughter because if she sees mommy wearing makeup she will want to wear it too and then that will turn her into a ####. Yes I know this is stupid but this is how he feels. I have tried to compromise and it doesn't work he just keeps taking from me and taking from me. If this persist I am going to begin to hate myself because I am turning into someone I don't know. What do I do....

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Mr Sebastian V
How to handle factory workers ?

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confused
A few years ago I was in a very stressful situation regarding my mother, whilst trying to maintain a positive family life with my husband and children. I was having considerable trouble coping so I saw a psychologist. Things got worse and I turned to my husband for help. My children were also showing signs of stress. During I found out that my husband belongs to a coven sect. We have been regular church goers. I was very upset by this, especially as he was involved as a guide to help others. I challenged him by saying that he had time for this, but no time or patience for his own family. I nearly left him. I felt that our years together as a couple and as members of our church was a lie. I became more distressed and suicidal. I sought help and have been on antidepressants ever since. I am still uncomfortable with my husband's involvements as I felt betrayed as he had kept it a secret from me for almost 30 years. I know he attends frequent meetings with work committees he is on and with this group. I have chanced on photos of nude group members, one person in particular, when getting an item from his bag on his request. He takes little interest in me and my life and takes no interest in me sexually. I cannot speak to him of any problems as he frequently counters with 'I have problems too'. I am frustrated and feel cut off by this secret life of his. I feel alone and unsure of what is going on and what I can do?

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E.G
How would you explain the phenomenon of 'cursing someone', or just having a very strong wish/thought, which ALWAYS materialize ..but just if it'd be something negative.. is it a certain psychic 'power of mind/thought' ..and if so, how can I take control of it? and turn it to work also to the positive ways? (it doesnt mean that I have just negative thoughts, and etc, but just the negative ones are the strongest in their force to realize and hurm)..

and another question, if twin sisters, will bring childs about the same time, from twin brothers (not their brothers!) just other random twins, how similar might be their children be, also from genetic point of view, what may be different and unusual (if yes) in this kind of union?

thanks!

p.s sorry for my English, if there's any mistakes, not my tongue language!

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Jay_Vincent
Me and this so called friends know each other for years, but for a while now, his always trying to put me down, always tries to correct me, and everything I say, he tries to prove me wrong even if its a simple, " it might rain today" comment, he will freaking go online, and try to prove it wont.

Not to Mention, I get a feeling that he lacks self confidence, and tries to use me as a punching bag to gain whatever his trying to get back, he betrayed my trust a few times in the past, but came back, crawling, and ran with it in a way, that didn't make it look like it was his fault.

I am getting tired of this, he use to be a decent person, but he changed, what should I do ?

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Jay_Vincent
Hi, I Just turned 22 years old, 6 weeks ago. and I always had a a weird anxiety feeling about my life. Some days I feel OK, some days I feel angry, short period of depression, loss of hope, and I don't know what else I can do to make this feeling go away.

I keep dwelling over past, getting angry, arguments with parents.

I don't feel like myself around other people, and some friends.

When I was younger I didn't get a chance to socialize as much, like most people around me did

I blame this mostly due to not having a car, so I couldn't get a job, make money, go out, I was home most of the time and I feel like that held me back from experiencing life to the fullest, and getting life experience out of living, majority of my time was at home, I was bored all the time, felt like I wasn't worth anything, felt like every time I met someone later on they wouldn't take me seriously as a person or try to put me down, felt like people wouldn't accept me.

I had home school after 10th grade, and even made my chances worse of meeting or making new friends, missed out on having fun, going to party's, and every little thing teens do in high school, basically experiencing life to the fullest and now I'm just peed off because I feel like I lost those years of my life and will never be able to get it back, never will be able to have a happy life or memory's, and its hurting me until now, I know this isn't normal, what can I do about it ?. Can someone give me some suggestions or advice to help me out?

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communication problems
How can my relationship with my future husband get better?

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