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I am extremely nervous about this...My partner and I had sex for about 2 hours straight with a condom, but it mysteriously disappeared....Could it still be stuck in my vagina??? HELP!!! Please hurry!!! |
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Hmmm. The case of the missing condom. In a related mystery, over the course of about a year or two, the rubber treads on all the cars in the world get worn down until they are bald and need to be changed. Where does all that rubber go? You don't see a big stack of it by the side of any roads... yet it is gone... hmmmm Perhaps with 2 solid hours of use, that condom ended up having a similar fate? Cheers! ~MyBizCoach |
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I always thought that when you dream you dream through the night, but recently I got told that you only dream in the morning just before you wake up. If this is true then does it sometimes feel like it was in the middle of the night and not just say an hour ago?? |
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Hi Hayley, You are right in thinking that you dream at different times during the night. You are also right in thinking that a dream that you had near waking may seem like it happened during the middle of the night. The reason for this is that when we are dreaming, often there is a distortion of our perception of time and space. In our unbound dreams we are capable of doing things that defy the rules that we are bound by during our waking hours. Perhaps we dream of flying or of swimming deep in the sea or any number of other physically impossible things. Time also can be distorted and we can loop back on our previous dreams and hook into dream memories, those memories we created while dreaming. This can give a sense of timelessness. Cheers! ~MyBizCoach |
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I trust my husband, but my insecurities creep up on me sometimes which isnt fair to him - but I can't help it. We had only ever been with each other and although he loves me and only wants me - he wanted to experience being with other women. I tried to support him on this but it tore me to pieces. He stopped immediately and has not and will not do anything behind my back - he is very honest and I respect that so much. I just worry that I cant be all that he wants and needs, that I am not desirable enough to him. He assures me I am, but I guess I am just not over the hurt of myself saying 'yes' to something in the first place that I wished so desperately I'd have said no to. Did I want him to be with another woman/women? No! but I thought that if I said no, it would get the better of him over time and he'd be tempted to, or have an affair or leave me etc. It took a lot of courage for him to talk to me about it in the first place. And because I love him so much I want him to be happy and fulfilled, but I just couldn't handle it. I became a real mess. Nothing is happening, he removed himself from sites straight away etc. But I still tense up every now and then and freak out. What should I do? |
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When I was a kid, I had a beautiful silver trumpet. I loved that trumpet. I practiced day after day, hour after hour to play that trumpet well. I just wanted it to sing! It deserved to have the most beautiful music played on it. I wasn't all that good on trumpet. But, when my trumpet teacher would put his lips on my trumpet and play, it sounded like something extraordinary. Phenomenal really. And I hated it. Why? Because I needed to CAUSE the beautiful music that my trumpet deserved. It wasn't enough FOR ME that it was played beautifully. I needed that to come from me together with my trumpet. You have a need. You need for your husband to be happy and fulfilled WITH you. Not just fulfilled by whomever. You want to and need to cause it. This is why you feel like you tense up and freak out a bit. Don't worry, you don't need to start learning the straight-jacket shuffle just yet. It's pretty normal for couples who share intimate fantasies to feel a bit unsteady about them. This is where having really good sense of self-worth comes in handy. If all the facts were known, often fantasies should remain just that, fantasies. The excitement of a fantasy is that there are no consequences. You get to do or think whatever you want in a fantasy and all you get is what you fantasize about getting or giving. You can put breath into a fantasy though. It's as easy as telling someone else about it. Suddenly, private thoughts without any repercussions have consequences. Each relationship is unique in what those consequences might be. It may be that the fantasy becomes a shared one. One that heightens the sexual experience between the two lovers. What if they breathe even more life into it? Perhaps by making moves towards enacting the fantasy? Other consequences appear. In your situation, you are fulfilled when you make him happy and satisfied. By default, that cannot happen if you are not the one making him happy and satisfied. What I would do, is talk with him about your own needs and wants and desires. You may tell him that you want him to be happy and that you want to be the woman who can bring that happiness and satisfaction to him all the time. Tell him that you are afraid that he might want someone else or leave you sometime in the future. It's okay to express your fears. Ask him to help you with that. Talk to him about your own fantasies. It honestly is okay to share fantasies. It may be a step too far in some relationships to extend that further into living those fantasies. Sometimes fantasies are best lived only in our mind. Make beautiful music together. Cheers! ~MyBizCoach |
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So I just got this used Lenovo 3000 C200 and it came with the Lotus Smart Suite 9.7 millenium edition...I was wondering if I could freely upgrade it or if this version is fine? I don't really know computers and I just want to be as up to date as possible, Thanks! |
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I would suggest that you frequently upgrade your software. Software manufacturers are often fixing bugs and security flaws in their programs. You'll want to keep your software up to date with all of these improvements. Cheers! ~MyBizCoach |
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I'll be 33 in July, am a quarter shy of a degree which I don't really want, won't get me the job I originally wanted and which I still owe a lot of money for and I can't seem to find anything which really inspires me or that I'm passionate about and would also make good money. Can anyone offer any helpful advice or inspiration...? |
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Think TOOLBOX. Every situation you find yourself in, every class, every job, every relationship, presents you with a buffet of tools, experiences and knowledge that you will be able to use for the rest of your life. I came to realise this while working in a near minimum wage job for years. I started looking for opportunities to learn what tools were available to me and then figure out how the heck to use them. What you are learning in school isn't just how to program or how to spot errors in html. You are learning how to learn. you are learning how to see a project through to its completion to free your time to focus on the next project. You are learning logic and researching skills. And dozens more if you get to listing them. View each one as a tool that you are mastering. When you are looking for the perfect position for yourself, how will you use the shiny new tools you've mastered? Will you be able to use logic. Will you be able to use determination. Will you be able to organise your time, your resources, your social contacts? Will you be ready to prepare your marketing materials? (Those essays do have some practical application in real life) You'll continue to develop a toolbox of skills that you'll be able to whip out and apply to such a vast array of situations throughout your life that you'll just wish that you had more time to perfect even more of them. Use the time in school to hone some of those tools. focus. Set goals and achieve them even when it's unclear what benefit you'll get by completing your goal. It's the path to completing that goal that helps us to refine our tools. For me, it's been very rewarding. For a guy who started out as a factory worker, I've progressed. Now, I'm doing what I love to do and I'm compensated unimaginably well for it. Build up your toolbox and your skill at applying them and you'll find your own way to what you truly want to be and do. Cheers! ~MyBizCoach |
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What is the sqaure route of 9? |
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I'm engaged with this perfectionist. For a while, I've been madly in love with him. But, after a year of engagement, he's gone from perfectionist to over bearing control freak. Every day I try to make him happy, but I feel like I never can. My love for him diminishes more everyday. How do I break up with him? |
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The question here is "how do I break up with him?" You stop. Realise that you no longer need to try to make him happy. Even in breaking up. It's not your concern anymore how he will take it. There is never a right time or a soft way of going about it. There is never a moment that is easy or painless. Be concerned about yourself and your own feelings, your own future. You have control over these things. To paraphrase an old song; "Ya just slip out the back, Jack. Make a new plan Stan. You don't need to be coy, Roy. Just listen to me. Ya just hop on the bus, Gus. No need to discuss Muss. Ya just drop off the key, Lee. Just get yourself free." There must be 50 ways to leave your lover. Warmest regards, ~MyBizCoach |
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I like this guy I work with and I want to know how to tell him I like him? |
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You know, I've had the same kind of situation before. What I've figured out (after trial and error) is that what you do says a lot more than what you say. If you like him, simply pay attention to him. Talk with him. Laugh at his jokes. Be interested in him as a person and be curious. People like to talk about themselves more than listening to you talk about yourself. So, ask him stuff about what music he likes, where he hangs out, maybe even ask him for advice on something at work. In short, be yourself. Be a friend and be curious. Cheers! ~MyBizCoach |
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Is writing in red considered rude? |
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Rudeness in ink. It seems a bit odd to think that the color of ink one chooses should conform to some rule. Now that I think about it, what better place to learn obscure rules than school? I believe that red ink is traditionally used by teachers in school to grade papers. I know that my teachers wouldn't allow a paper in red ink. They wanted that reserved for themselves. Blue and black ink are the norm. There are a myriad of other colors available. Depending on your target audience and the message you want to convey, some colors might be considered inappropriate. If you are writing a sympathy card, metallic pink might not be the best choice. Likewise there are situations where red wouldn't be the best choice. However, in writing a valentines love letter red ink would be highly appropriate. Signing a cease-fire treaty in red ink may not be as appropriate. In summary, consider your message and your audience when you choose ink color to avoid being seen as rude. Cheers! ~mybizcoach |
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I would like to learn theology in Australia. |
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