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My husband is 37 and works as a Proejct Head with a very reputed Telecom Company in Eastern India. I am married to him since 3 years and have since then noticed a constant inconsistency in him. He is a very nice, kind hearted and cheerful person sometimes but suddenly he turns to be very very cold. He is very short tempered and turns violent and breaks and throws things when he is angry. His personality changes completely. His eyes remain still and very coldly he utters very harsh things. Suppose he tells me very nice things and suddenly without any reason after a few hours he speaks completely the opposite. Suppose we fight on some issues and he apologises as he realizes his mistake but suddenly after sometime he tells that I am to be accused for all and utters abusive languages. This inconsistency in him has now been admitted by his parents that he was always like this. I had spoken to him very nicely and asked him to attend for a counsellor with me and even I said that I need counselling so that he takes me and it could also help for his counselling. But he never agrees to go. He also suffers from some superiority complex and can never tolerate if anyone around him achieves something greater than what he has. This mental state of his has had very bad consequences on many things both domestically and officially. Please help me and let me know if this is a mental problem. What should I do ? |
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It is difficult to know for certain, but your description sounds like a bi-polar disorder. Read up and see if it fits. Also suggested treatments: http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/bipolar-disorder/complete-publication.shtml |
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I am with a wonderful man who has very little confidence when it comes to sex. We have been together for six years and every other area of our life is great. We have discussed things in the past but can not seem to move forward. I am finding it more frustrating as we have talked about options and changes already and I am now seeming to come across as impatient and harsh. I do not want this to affect the other areas of our relationship as we have a very healthy and caring relationship. I am desperate to make positive changes, please help |
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A great deal will depend on what you define as "moving forward, the timeline you have in mind and how patient you are prepared to be with your intended. You must accept or reject the baggage he brings to that aspect of your relationship. This will define your path. If he does not share your vision, perhaps you have not communicated it clearly. Equally, perhaps you are not listening to his. If you are having SEX (the most intimate contact), surely you can find a way to communicate with words. Use them and listen to his. It is communication as if you need to understand each other. Good luck! |
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What % of Pakistanis watch TV daily ? |
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I don't know if a percentage can be determined. Several factors are in play: A) Is there television broadcast in the area? Television is a 'local' signal because of the signal strength necessary. Satellite television will be different, but it will not be local. B) Do people have televisions and/or electricity? This may well be the largest stumbling block. TV may be available, but if no one can power their television or receive the signal, what's the point? C) Are the people watching at the broadcast times? Not all broadcasting is 24/7 as is common in more advanced areas. Television broadcasts in many so-called 'third world' countries can be haphazard at best and are often strictly controlled by government forces/censors. Television in so-called 'first world' countries is often taken for granted. That is, we expect television to be available on multiple channels with various programming. Such is simply not the case in societies that do not have such luxuries. Television is likely a luxury in many, if not most areas of Pakistan. |
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Last night, my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex for the first time. It was very short, and he did not ejaculate. However, I am still worried there is a chance of me being pregnant after hearing things about 'pre-cum'. I am also currently on the birth control pill, and have been for a month and 1/2, yesterday I did not take it at the same time as usual (9am), I took it around 12pm, could this put me at risk ? I do not want to be pregnant, please help, I need your advice ! |
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Your risks are quite low, but no contraceptive method is 100% effective. What you heard about Cowper's gland secretion is correct, it can contain sperm and you can get pregnant: http://www.sexhealthinplainenglish.com/ men_articles/cowpers_gland_secretion/cowpers_gland_secretion.htm |
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Why does it take like 5-6 mins. to reboot my desktop computer. 2.4 gb.512mb.ram. windows xp. I've removed everything I can from the startup menu in ipconfig. |
| Question found in Computers For Intermediate |
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Computers have a tendency to build up a great deal of junk. Programs that were installed and did not uninstall completely, etc. Little bits of crud in your Registry that are no longer needed but send the computer looking for programs and utilities no longer available. Or available, but unneeded. All of this takes time. I use a utility that can clean up a lot of the garbage. It's not expensive and you could find it really helpful. http://www.pcpitstop.com/ |
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I have been a guarantor for some one to get a bedsit. This person has not paid any rent since October and I have had it to pay/. I can no longer afford this and have sent a letter in giving one months notice on being a guarantor. They have written back saying I cant do that I have to pay until march. I can not afford to pay anymore. |
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If you are guarantor for a party to a formal agreement for a specified period, you cannot quit unless the creditor allows it. From your brief description, it sounds as if you are obligated to pay the rent for six months. I would strongly suggest that you observe the terms of the agreement concerning timely notice to quit before the agreement expires. That is, it could continue in force for additional months or even an additional term unless to provide proper and timely notice. In the meantime, you liable for the rent. Perhaps you have some method of extracting the money from the person whom you guaranteed. You may also have the legal right to evict the deadbeat and sublet the unit. Read the rental agreement. Next time, do not be so quick to guarantee an other's performance on a financial obligation. If the lender or landlord was unwilling to accept their promise of payment, you should consider that a big clue. |
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My 94 Dodge Shadow heater isn't blowing when its cold outside you cant even feel the hot air and the defroster doesn't defrost the windows? |
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Could be any of a number of problems. Most are simple to diagnose, not all are simple or inexpensive to repair. "Heater isn't blowing". Does this mean no air movement? Perhaps the vacuum or electrical system is not properly moving the internal ducting valves or your blower fan is not functioning. Replacing the fan motor should be fairly straightforward. The heater control module might need replacement to correct the other if it's not simply unplugged connections. Fan blows, but air is cold? Check the coolant level in the radiator and recovery bottle. Low coolant will result in poor or no heat. If coolant level is O.K., check upper radiator hose at running temperature. It should be HOT. If not, possibly a stuck thermostat. Could also be an obstructed heater core (difficult and expensive) or simply a stuck hot water valve on the heater hoses under the hood (if applicable). FEEL the heater hoses when the engine is at operating temperature. One should be hot, the other should be warm. If you don't feel competent, a decent mechanic should be able to run through the diagnostic steps in about ten minutes and give you an idea regarding the problem. It may cost more than doing it yourself, but you will have it fixed much sooner. |
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How to make hair healthier? |
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There are many products and treatments that can help your hair to be more attractive, curlier, straighter, softer, shinier, etc. A cosmetologist or professional hair dresser can provide more specific answers if you present specific questions, but you cannot make dead tissue healthy. You can wash, starch and iron the drapes, but you cannot bring them back to life. Hair is dead tissue. "Healthy hair" is advertising hype. |
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If one provides a service to a customer who cannot pay and they leave an item behind in exchange for this service is the service provider allowed to sell this item to retrieve finances? |
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| If you accept such an offer, the item is yours to dispose of as you see fit. |
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Why do some village stocks have five holes? |
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One neck, two ankles and two wrists. Beware the stocks with six...cruel and unusual punishment. Comments :  That's what we thought. Just my luck to be in a six-holer. Story of my life.
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