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What is it called when someone is verbally horrible to you on the telephone? What if the person was your Agent?

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Abuse. Don't take it personally though, unless of course it has happened more than once!

Either way do you need it and are there better agents out there who are more suited to your needs?

How do you feel about it, and where you want to be??

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My six year old broke out in fine bumps on her face and neck. Last night she had a slight fever and complained about her throat hurting what could be the problem?

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I would get her checked out by a doctor. I doubt it is anything serious but I suspect that she will need medication.

Take care

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Hi, I'm 22 years old, my life is fairly OK,

but I keep dwelling over past, getting angry, arguments with parents.

When I was younger I didn't socialize as much, mostly due to not having a car, so I couldn't get a job, make money, go out, and I feel like that held me back from experiencing life to the fullest and now I'm just peed off because I feel like I lost those years of my life and will never get it back and its hurting me until now, is this normal, whats your opinion on this? Can someone give me some suggestions to help me out?

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What you are feeling is natural and most people at some stage in their lives have the same thoughts. The trouble is that you are having them about 20 years too early. It isn't that you are unhappy about what you haven't done before it's mainly because what you don't feel that you can achieve anything now. This could be that you lack self belief, confidence and you just don't think that you deserve to be happy?

What has gone is gone. Nothing you can do will change anything, you do not own a time machine, if you do can I borrow it please. :)
Instead of sulking about what you haven't done focus on what you can do, and that starts from the time you read this.
Do you have a hobby, a sport event, do you love cars etc. Find something that you enjoy and that you feel that you are good at and focus on using that as a vehicle to improve your self belief/confidence. Your trust in the future will change and people will notice it so you will be fun to be with. Try and not live by excuses. You don't always need a car to get work, you could have found something local and walked there. The reason that you may not have is that you were afraid and as long as the fear is winning you will never be happy.

Which brings us back to your question, so what do you want?
Your past or your future? People will always judge you on what you are doing not always on what you have done.

Have fun

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I get what you mean,
yea i have hobby's. its just every time i get out of the house i feel fine
but when i come back home, sooner or later my anxiety starts acting up. I am mostly relaxed, but sometimes can get mad and relax within a minute, i guess im punishing myself 4 letting my life slip away


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I would like to get instructions to play canasta. I played that game a long time ago and have forgotten many of the steps to start. Would appreciate getting the information.

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Its a great game and well worth getting back in to. Try this site:
http://www.pagat.com/rummy/canasta.html

Have fun

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Ive just recently asked a question on here and after a chat he has said he'll take pics of ex's off PC and put them away on disk and also he will spend less time on PC. But another issue that he point blank refuses to do anything about is the pic of an ex's child in his wallet. I'm not against kids but he was with the mom for only a couple of months anyway and the child isnt his, child was 18 months when they met. If child was his it would be different or bought it up for a few years. He hasn't had contact with the child for over 2 yrs but says he still cares deeply about the child.

I have a new baby and a 12 yr old from a previous relationship and he wants to be dad to mine but I cant let him add pics of mine to his wallet as it just doesnt feel right to me. He says i shouldnt have a problem with it and him adding my kids pics in there too. Am i being selfish?

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I'm not sure if selfish is the right word for your reactions, to be honest.
Cautious or wary, maybe better words as I suspect that your gut is having it's say as well. The bottom line for me at any rate is that you are there and its what your gut is telling you based on what you see around you. Your boyfriend may just have issues or he has some form of relationship problems, what do you think?

Try and get a relaxed conversation going and see what he offers, the more defensive he is the more questions I would ask and take it from there. If you have any reason to doubt then I would suggest parting company.

I wish you well and take care.

Regards.

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My girlfriend recently called it all off between us. We get on great, there is no problem between us. It is all because she has been hurt twice before in the past and as things were about to get serious she backed off. She admits I'm nothing like her exes and she totally trusts me. She wants it all as much as me but she just cant forget whats happened in the past. We've talked and talked about it but now we are just going round in circles. What else can I do?

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I'm sorry to hear about your girlfriends problems but it does sound like she wants to be happy, and more importantly with you. :)

Try and remain upbeat and not lose your sense of male cheekyness. Be understanding and patient. Let her do most of the talking and not try and solve her problems. She needs to be heard and to feel that she is.

Although she says that she has had unhappy experiences with her exes, and that this has caused trust issues to flair up for her I doubt that they were the underlying cause so she may need to talk about other events.

Either way, you both have your joint futures in your hands and I suspect that this will be the making of you as a couple. Just be there for each other and help each other solves life's challenges together. Always the best way in my view..... :)

Have fun

Regards

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How can I get good at having conversations?

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The trouble with doing some types of tasks, especially ones that have to include others, is that the thought of doing them can put you off trying.
So the more you think that you can't the longer it will take you before you can. Is there some people that you can talk for hours with and not blink an eye? Or do you feel too self conscious all the time??

The first thing to realise is that it is only you that feels like you have a problem, so you think about it and over analyse it far too much than is healthy. So try and worry less. The second thing is that you need to plan a little bit more so your fear has less importance. So buy a couple of gossip or newspapers and have some ready topics to amaze your friends with. Try and find ones which you can offer a funny twist to. And thirdly feel the fear and do it anyway. So put yourself in to situations that forces you to have to chat with people, you will be surprised how quickly the fear will go.

One last thing, life is here to have fun in. You can't take money or memories with you when it's over, so promise me you will make them all happy ones!

Take care

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How do you round 50,822 to the nearest thousand?

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Read the number out in words....
We have fifty thousand, eight hundred and twenty two. So the eight hundred and twenty two is less than a thousand, have you got it yet?
To round it down to the nearest thousand you would take off the part of the number that is less than that, in this case the answer would be 50,000.
To see if you understand try doing it yourself but this time round down to the nearest hundred.......

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hi, I'm 22 yrs old I'm going to be married soon and fiance loves me very much and I also luv him but I had a past. I was in luv with another man 2 yrs ago and also had sexual relationship with him, shall I tell my fiance about it?

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Hello there,
We all have a past, and the older we are the bigger it is. But it will be our personal perspective that can make it a bad one, or not.
You want to enter the next stage of your relationship with your future husband with a level playing field. I think that is a very positive thing and will bode well if you both feel the same way. If you feel that this is something that you want to share then wait for the right moment and make sure that you both have a heart to heart. Bear one thing in mind though, some of the most successful relationships are based on trust, and therefore will have secrets. Not everything in your past deserves or is even needed to be shared.

Take care, the both of you and I wish you every happiness.
Regards

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How important is blood in a stool? following 4 days of diarrhea and vomiting. Haven't kept any food down for 4 days. Have seen my doctor on day 2 but blood in stool has only occurred on the fourth day. Feeling dizzy and feint.

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It can be a sign of a serious condition, so get yourself checked out asap!

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