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My husband has been addicted to sex and females since before I met him, he just hid it. The reason I feel unattractive is because of the things he's been doing and lying about. I've tried to talk to him. He hates talking about anything. He doesn't want to hear anything or say anything. He gets mad if I try to talk to him. He's been better since our last blowout, when I found a porno in my bedroom and caught him on the internet. The pornos are not the big problem. It's the lying about them. I've said that I have no problem watching them with him but he still hides them and lies about them. I don't want to give up on us yet, I'm miserable. Now I worry about him lying all the time, how would I know? I never thought he would lie to me in the first place. Please help. |
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Porno at an early age is introduced mostly by peers. Later on it becomes an obsession due to many factors. One of them is that he is uncomfortable about himself, or he is looking for stimulation he can't get otherwise (this is psychological only for him not you) which can be devastating in relationships, or he has been subjected to an environment that has no boundaries and in which he feels this has been widely accepted. This has nothing to do with you, your feeling unattractive, etc., and you need to stop thinking that it does. Yes, he has a problem and no it's not yours to fix. In order for a liar to realize the humiliation of his bad habit, he must catch himself in the act, not you. All too often families try to avoid a problem either by pretending it does not exist or adding fuel to the fire by justiying it. Both cases are extremely damaging to all family and friends involved. He is not only hurting you. Get away from him if you must. Just be sure that the decision you make is your own and for the right reasons in your heart because all of us seek peace, whether or not we really know it conciously, in our lives. The price we pay for it is immeasurable sometimes but one day you can look back and realize how simple and wise it is. I hope this helps and good luck. |
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What is the longest pop song? |
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In No Particular Order, here are some of the longest: > In-A-Godda-Da-Vida - Iron Butterfly (17:02) > Paradise By The Dashboard Light - Meatloaf (8:28) > American Pie - Don McLean (8:34) >Roundabout - Yes (8:30) > Everything I Do I Do It For You - Bryan Adams (6:33) > Radar Love - Golden Earring (6:27) > Freebird - Lynyrd Skynyrd (9:07) > L.A. Woman - the Doors (7:49) > Light My Fire - the Doors (7:08) > Riders on the Storm - the Doors (7:11) > Hey Jude - Beatles (7:08) > Freebird Live - Lynyrd Skynyrd (14:09) > Life's Been Good To Me So Far - Joe Walsh (8:56) > Always and Forever - Heatwave (6:14) > Tainted Love/Where Did Our Love Go - Soft Cell (8:58) |
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I feel nauseous all day it comes and goes like I'm going to get sick. My doctor has checked liver, thyroid, diabetes, MRI or head, limes disease, and pregnant. everything has came back normal. I have had tingling in my limbs since Feb of 2006. Last month I has a shaking spell that lasted 24 hours for 1 1/2 weeks along with being very tired then stopped. The tingling is still there. My neurologist thinks it's a compressed nerve but the nauseous feeling it still here and triable. I also get pressure or slight pain on left side of chest but on the outside of my boob like a strained muscle. I'm only 28 and woke up one day feeling like I was 80. What is wrong with me. |
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Be very cautious of who you get to check these symptoms. I have had most of these symptoms for the last ten years and the result was several disks in my neck and back were damaged,(car crash / huge boulder/ decades of climbing). Take a long-hard look at your daily routine and sleeping position and try to figure out if you are doing anything causing stress on your neck, in particular but also analyze your physical demands on the rest of your body. Usually, if you have numbness in most of your limbs, it is centralized to the neck or near thoracic area of the spine. Get a neurologist to order an "enhanced MRI" of your cervical and thoracic areas of you spine. Also if you have a lot of leg pain get the doc to do the MRI on your lumbar area as well. This can be serious especially if you get in a rear-collision in an auto. My instincts could be wrong but they also tell me you may have cervical stenosis. This can be a simple bone spur pressing on your spine or something like I have which is narrowing your spinal chord due to a damaged disk. This is not to frighten you, it is to be cautious until you know for sure . good luck and I hope this is of help to you. |
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I fell and received 8 stitches in the top of my head, should I have received X-rays to see if anything was broken? |
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| I agree with the first reply but would add age(elderly/brittle bones), the type of accident that caused injury and the possible swelling. If you are dizzy or have swelling it may be required to get an x-ray and have someone with you as you sleep for the next couple of days. The doctor probably is right but in to days "second-opinion" mindset, I would pay close attention to those after effects. |
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List the key issues for children as they change from child to adult. |
| Question found in Parenting & Family In General |
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| Independence without enough experience, rebellion towards parents since young adults tend to think we are trying to tell them what to do, and the uncertainty of what the future has in store. Generally they need to find themselves and eventually they will. Sorry, I don't have enough info derived from your question to give you an educated answer. |
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I suffer from extremely painful and extremely uncomfortable throat, head and face spasms countless times a day, particularly when I relax. There is not much to see apart from a slightly downturned mouth, as most of it goes on in my throat, temples and what seems deep behind my face. It can stop me talking and I occasionally have difficulty in swallowing. It's been going on for seven years. I have seen my GP who has diagnosed me with M.E, as I also have other symptoms such as chronic fatigue, other muscle sensitivity/pain etc/etc, but the throat, face and head spasms feel completely different from the rest of it and are not relieved greatly or at all by anything I take or do to try and improve it. I am parietal cell antibody positive. Can this affect any other system other than stomach/digestive as I know there are parietal parts in the brain? I have under active thyroid, high blood pressure and folic acid deficiency, all being successfully treated. I can cope with the misery of the M.E by changing my lifestyle, not planning ahead, medicines etc, but not the throat/face/ head symptoms, as nothing about it is remotely controllable and so bizarre it's scary, as no one I speak to can relate to it. I would be so grateful for any suggestions or advice on what it may be, or what I can do. I look forward from hearing from you. Thank-you. |
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I am sorry that you suffer so much. My experience with a couple of the symptoms you described is similar but I am not sure if we have the same cause. If you are having regular migraines, and the tendons on either side of the front part of the neck, just below the ear, are constricting similar to a muscle spasm then I have an idea. The base of the skull where the spine connects is a tricky thing. You could have a nerve inflamed or being damaged by a disk, bone spur, or a number of other things. The cervical area can cause a number of problems, even chronic fatigue. Migraines are common, even problems in the lower body and all limbs. If you suspect a neurological problem in the neck causing these symptoms then you could possibly have at least some short term relief of this as I do. Try this link and read a little and see if there may be a solution there. I hope there will be because chronic pain and muscle spasms are somethings that no one should have to live with. Link: www.microspine.com |
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In a party, there is one man who dances exactly with 3 ladies and 1 woman who dances exactly with 3 men. There are exactly two pairs and are common with every man. How many people are there in party? |
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| 17 if you include yourself........ |
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Why cant I keep a secret and end up telling people? |
| Question found in People & Relationships In General |
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| I beg to differ with the other replies. If you are a witness to something wrong such as a drunk driver, a teenager with a gun, etc., you run screaming to the appropriate authorities. There are times when it's not about you but the safety and well being of others. This does not mean you should always tell all, but you conduct yourself in a manner in which you would comfortable with given the same circumstances. I don't agree with the the common philosophy of the younger generation about "snitching". It is wrong to attack some one's character when they are asking a simple question that they do not know the answer and to assume that it is the person who reveals the secret is just wanting attention. IMHO. |
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How do I replace the hub assembly for a 200 ford mustang? |
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| It depends on whether you want to do it yourself or if you just want to understand the concept. Knowing which hub is important. I always buy those large manuals at the parts store for my particular model. It breaks it down into steps for you to do it yourself if so inclined including telling you which tools you will need. It certainly will involve grease, a couple of bearings, probably a puller and some knowledge of how to pack the new bearings when you put them on. You will also need to remove the brake system on the hub and there really is much more to it than I can explain in any great detail here. The book is a great investment because you will use it for other repairs as well. |
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Do people that were born blind, or became blind before the age of 3, on average show less racism, than those that are sighted? |
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I heard a child the other day in the market, he asked,"why are people different colors?" The mom correctly answered" because God made us all different so we would be more interesting, that's why we don't all look alike". I asked my 5 year old the other day which person on a TV quiz show he thought gave the correct answer. He said "the guy with the blue shirt". There was a European male, African-American male and a Caucasian female on the TV program. The guy in the blue shirt was an African-American male. I live in an area where racism is and may unfortunately always be dominant but he, (5 yrs old), did not see skin color. I am in awe of his ability to do this because I have always wanted to know how to be genuinely color blind in a society here that teaches everyone otherwise, black, white or indifferent. Respectfully, I think your question should be more specific, sensitive and less racist in tone, (whether intentional or not), in order to get a proper answer from any expert here without the risk of offending because we are from ALL walks of life. That's the beauty of the Internet, no color implied here just in case nobody has noticed. I also do not intend offense to anyone who may read this observation. IMHO. Try again......... |
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